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Domestic Violence and the Law

A PRO SE protective order is an order that protects you from an abusive partner.  This order can be obtained without a lawyer.  PRO SE means you can act without legal representation.

 
 
 
LEGAL REQUIREMENTS - Who qualifies for a Pro SE protective order?
 
RELATIONSHIP
You must show that you and the abuser meet ONE of the following:
 
bullet Presently married, even if you are not living together
bullet Divorced or separated, whether or not living together
bulletLiving together in an intimate relationship with the abuser at the time of the abuse.  (The legal word is cohabitation.)
bulletLiving together and related by blood, (such as adult siblings) or by affinity (such as adoption or marriage).
bulletYou and the abuser are parents of the same child who is under 18 years of age.
bulletYou and the abuser lived together at some time during the past year and were in an intimate relationship.
bulletYou and the abuser lived together at some time during the past year and were related by blood or affinity.
 
ABUSE AND PRESENT THREAT OF HARM
You must show that an assault, as defined by law, has occurred.  Assault means ONE of the following must have happened:
 
bulletSomeone physically abused you; OR
bulletSomeone pointed a gun at you or displayed a dangerous weapon (such as a knife) toward you in a threatening manner; OR
bulletSomeone threatened you with physical contact which would cause pain or injury, AND the threat put you in fear, AND the threat could be carried out immediately.
 
RESIDENCY
The non-abusive partner or the abuser must live in Iowa.  The petition must be filed in the courthouse located in the county where either the non-abusive partner or the abuser is living.
 
WHAT CAN THE COURT DO UNDER CHAPTER 236?
Under Chapter 236 the court can restrict the abusive partner from behavior such as contacting the non-abusive partner at home, work, or school.  When the petition is filed the petitioner will have a chance to state specifically what he/she wants the abuser to be restrained from.  The court will also determine such issues as child custody and living arrangements.
 
 
WHAT KIND OF PROTECTIVE ORDERS ARE THERE?
TEMPORARY:  This order is issued the same day that the petition is filed and is good up to the time of the hearing.
PERMANENT:  This order is issued at the end of the hearing and is good for up to one year.
EMERGENCY:  This order is issued on the weekend or any other time that the courthouse is closed and is good for 72 hours.
 
 
WHAT ARE MY OTHER OPTIONS?
 
SAFETY PLAN: This option must be pursued no matter what other options you choose.  There is no guarantee that the abuser will obey the protective order.  A Safety Plan example is found on this website.  Our staff will gladly help you with any and all questions.
WRIT OF INJUNCTION:  A lawyer can petition the court for a writ of injunction to protect you.  While a writ of injunction can be part of a divorce case, you do not need to be married to obtain one.  You do need a lawyer.
MOVE:  You can move to a shelter or other safe place.
CRIMINAL CHARGES:  You can ask the police or county attorney to file criminal charges against the abuser and ask the judge to order "no contact" while the case is pending.
 
To start PRO SE proceedings go to the clerk of court in your county and ask for a PRO SE no contact order for domestic violence.   Contact us at Seeds of Hope, 1-888-746-4673, to obtain more information and support.  We have legal advocates to support you through your legal process.
 
 
CRIMINAL CHARGES
 
Victims of domestic assault can file criminal charges.  The process is long and drawn out and can be both physically and emotionally draining.  However, filing criminal charges shows the civil court that you are serious, shows the court that you are a victim of a violent crime, and assists you in getting compensatory (money) damage for being the victim of a violent crime.  To file criminal charges you must go to your county attorney's office and make a written statement under oath that public offense has been committed.  At this time you can ask the judge to order "no contact" while the case is pending.
 
 

CRIME VICTIM COMPENSATION
 
This program provides money damages to victims of violent crimes.  To qualify you must report the crime to police within 72 hours of occurrence or within 72 hours of the time a report could reasonable have been made.  You must file a claim with the Department of Justice usually within 180 days after date of crime.
 
If you or someone you love has suffered personal injury from violent crime, you may be eligible for help, including compensation for:
bulletMedical Care
bulletLost Wages
bulletLoss of Support for Dependents
bulletCounseling
bulletFuneral Expenses

To obtain an application, contact the
Crime Victim Compensation Program
at 1-800-373-5004
or
Seeds of Hope
at 1-888-746-4673.